Wednesday, November 3, 2010

From Friend to Disappointing Jerk

People constantly come and go in your life. But they do not go from your memory. People either make a bad impression or a good impression. The ones that make good impressions are the ones whom you want to keep close to you. Why? Because you like them. They become your close friends and become a part of your life. You begin to hold them in high regard, believing that they are truly wonderful and normal folks.

But lets say you had a good friend or knew someone you respected and they did something totally disgusting that your stomach turned and you begin to to feel ashamed for associating yourself with that person. Then what? Well they obviously fall from that high place you've put them on.

I've met and known a few people who've I called friend, but later called jerk, loser, ass and much more filthier words. One is someone I considered one of my great loves, so much so that I still have feelings for him many years after we broke up. Lets call him Romeo. But when he made that transformation from friend to jerk, he fell from from that high place I put him on. Now he's a person who thinks having three girlfriends at the same time and then proudly boasting it to me is cool. I also recently found out that he's a creeper. He even once suggested that him and I could chill out in a hotel! WTF! Yeah I didn't see that coming.

Another one who has turn friend to jerk was someone I dated a while ago. Lets call this one Bay. We broke up on good terms and remained friends for a while, and for awhile I thought, "Hey, he's actually a good guy." This thought ended when he believed that it was okay to add one of my friends on facebook and start hitting on her! WHAT A CREEPER! As an attempt to clear up his gross actions he claimed that he was just trying to make new friends and that I was only angry at him because now I had an excuse to vent my bottled up anger towards him from our breakup! Could you believe that?! Not only is he a creeper, he was a very bad lier.

Like everything else in life, like disappointing jerks, come and go.

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